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Six dating behaviors, that scare single men away (I)

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D-r Carl Leonard, Ph.D

This article is aimed at warnings to women. It could apply either way. The choice is yours.


DatingYou’re dating a guy, and it’s the crucial, first few weeks. You really like this guy, and you’re wondering what you can do (or avoid doing) to keep this relationship going, and not scare him away.

The truth is, there are certain things women can do, that will scare men away. Don’t sabotage a potentially great relationship, that could have gone somewhere, by scaring a man off right at the beginning.

1. TRASH TALKING YOUR EX

Don’t talk negatively, about an ex-boyfriend, in front of a guy you’re dating. I don’t care if you’re on your first date, or your fifteenth date with a guy, don’t ever trash talk your ex.

Your ex is somebody you dated, you invited into your life, and with whom you spent a lot of time. So don’t talk negatively about your ex, in any way, because what a guy thinks when you do this, is that if he ever becomes your ex, is that you’re going to trash talk him, the same way.

So when a man asks you about your ex, you can politely say, “we are no longer together. It was a great relationship while it lasted and I learned a lot. “That’s it.

2. PARANOIA RUNS RAMPANT

Here you are dating a man you really like, and the first couple of weeks are going well.

Then, that first boys’ night out happens. In the beginning you send him a text that says,

“Have a great time tonight.”

As the night progresses, however, seeds of doubt start forming in your mind, about what he’s doing, and you start to think, “Is he cheating on me? Is he flirting with other women? Where is he right now?”

So then, you lob another text at him asking, “What’s going on? What are you doing right now?” Even though he tells you, he’s just hanging out with his friends, you proceed to make a major blunder.

You start checking up on him with continuous texts, throughout the night. This paranoia will push a man away. So when you are dating a man, and he is out with friends, respect his “guy-time”, — it will make you the cool woman he’s always wanted to find.

3. TRASH — TALKING OTHER WOMEN

A huge mistake, many women make, is trash-talking other women, in front of the man they’re dating. For example, you are out with him when a woman walks by, wearing a short skimpy skirt. You say, “Look how promiscuous that woman looks! I can’t believe she’s going around in public, like that!”

What are you doing, when you make comments like this, to a guy you are dating is telling him you are not confident in the way you look.

It tells him you don’t love who you are, and have not embraced your own body. You are planting a seed of doubt in him, causing him to wonder if he should date someone else, who is more confident (and tolerant). Don’t trash-talk other women. It makes you look really insecure.

(to be continued)

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